Staying out of it

Everyone has problems right? So what happens to these problems when it comes to your friends? Do you share everything and talk it all out and when updates come you tell the other people and just share share share? Or do you stay out of it. I am in a situation where I see a problem that two people are just not handling. My personal opinion is to do whatever you can to make other people happy. But in doing this I am putting my head somewhere it doesn't belong and that does NOOONE any good. So I stay out of it. In the process I am going silently insane from these people's stupidity. A friend suggested everyone is lying and it's kind of a good and bad advice. In truth everyone involved is lying to someone. Either to themselves, the other person, me, and the world is up to them. But how do I, being a recovering lieaholic, just accept all this bull shit? I just want to stay out of it and laugh at the situation without becoming a bitch and cynic and that's how I'm ending up. I have too many problems of my own to become involved in this. But let me just say if I say something and someone takes it the wrong way. Remember I'm still grieving. Every day hurts when I don't wake up with Justin next to me and sometimes those days get bad. But I'm trying so we'll see.